Get Romance Ready
You never know where you’re going to meet your mate. You might meet someone in the waiting area of the doctor’s office like me! The rest is history. You could meet your mate anytime and anywhere so go out every day looking, smelling and feeling great. You will be more prone to attract when you feel open and confident.
No one likes to ask someone out that does not look after themselves. Look healthy, be healthy. Eat right, exercise, make yourself the best that you can be. Don’t expect the perfect date if you are overweight, unfit, unhappy and depressed. Get on it! Change your lifestyle, change your life!
Get into some good habits
Take time out to relax. Sleep enough. Eat healthy. Exercise. Drink enough water. Get a haircut. Shave your legs. Do whatever you need to do to make yourself appealing. It will do wonders for your self-esteem.
Be fun and look happy, even if there are things that could be better. If you are smiling, you look happy and happy people attract other happy people. You attract what you give. Too often we attract negative people who are making us feel worse by telling us that their problems are bigger than ours.
Be present and live in the now. Stop worrying about the future! Forget the past!
Stop talking about your problems
Don’t walk around telling everybody how tired you are, how lonely you are, how depressed you are. People avoid energy suckers that makes them feel down. Instead change your perception and your attitude. Look happy. Tell people you are doing well – and mean it! Tell people that you are making progress, that you are losing weight, that you started a new hobby. Be excited about something – get that something now!
Get a hobby
A hobby is a great way to forget all things bothering you and focus and get immersed into something challenging and creative.
Hook up with friends
Nobody is going to get close to you if you hide away at work or home. Get out and get mingling!
Put the message out there that you are single and ready to date. Do not compare your dates to previous partners who left you when things got rough. Maybe you need to change your perception of the kind of person you would like to be with. It could be the kind of person you’d least expect! We all have an idea about our perfect partner, but you could be wrong.
The real you is confident, sexy and fun. Don’t pretend to be someone you’re not just to please a date. Be confident and secure. You will find the one who loves you just the way you are.
Forgive and forget
Resentment, hate and aggression will get you nowhere. Stop hating and start to act with love in everything you do. You will be amazed how powerful this can be!
Do something nice for someone without expecting something back. It does wonders for your emotional state but it also attracts more positive things into your life.
Give Cupid a fair chance. Don’t break his arrows before he has shown you what he is capable of. Be open.
“I wonder how many people don’t get the one they want, but end up with the one they’re supposed to be with.”
― Fannie Flagg, Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe